This just popped up in my head....and since the kids are asleep and I'm still WIDE awake, decided to blog like I've never blogged before... :p
Anyway, the second piece of advice I would give out is "Make sure you are at least 100% sure that HE IS 'The One' " ahaa ahaa... ;p
It may sound ridiculous coz some of you may be thinking...of course couples are 100% sure that they are marrying 'The One'...!! (Gila kali?!) hehehhe..You'd be surprised at how so many many many girls out there find themselves getting married and they had no idea how they got there in the first place!?! It's almost funny...but seriously, it's not.
I've heard stories where the girl secretly can't stand the fiancee ...and then she marrys him hoping he'll change. HUGE mistake...BIG mistake. You can't change the guy...he is who he is and that is that..end of story. You like the guy's personality, then good...if you don't ...well.... not much you can do about it really.......?!?
If you're 90% sure he may be 'The One' , don't marry him..yet. If you're 99.5% sure that possibly he is 'The One' ..nope..don't marry yet... hehehhe...You've gotta at least..minimum..100% be sure you wana marry the guy and spend YOUR life with him.
So how do you know you are 100% sure he's 'The One'....??
Well, lots of ways to tell I guess, but im ny opinion, it's simple. I would say, if you feel like no matter what happens, no matter if he lost everything he had in an instant, no matter how many other more cooler and more charming guys pass your way, no matter how much his sisters hate your guts, no matter how bad you can argue about the most smallest things......you still want to and have to be near him and you choose him over everything and anything....then yeah...seems to me like you are 100% sure...it's a good start. This marriage could possibly work! yaaye... hehhehe
Anyway, the second piece of advice I would give out is "Make sure you are at least 100% sure that HE IS 'The One' " ahaa ahaa... ;p
It may sound ridiculous coz some of you may be thinking...of course couples are 100% sure that they are marrying 'The One'...!! (Gila kali?!) hehehhe..You'd be surprised at how so many many many girls out there find themselves getting married and they had no idea how they got there in the first place!?! It's almost funny...but seriously, it's not.
I've heard stories where the girl secretly can't stand the fiancee ...and then she marrys him hoping he'll change. HUGE mistake...BIG mistake. You can't change the guy...he is who he is and that is that..end of story. You like the guy's personality, then good...if you don't ...well.... not much you can do about it really.......?!?
If you're 90% sure he may be 'The One' , don't marry him..yet. If you're 99.5% sure that possibly he is 'The One' ..nope..don't marry yet... hehehhe...You've gotta at least..minimum..100% be sure you wana marry the guy and spend YOUR life with him.
So how do you know you are 100% sure he's 'The One'....??
Well, lots of ways to tell I guess, but im ny opinion, it's simple. I would say, if you feel like no matter what happens, no matter if he lost everything he had in an instant, no matter how many other more cooler and more charming guys pass your way, no matter how much his sisters hate your guts, no matter how bad you can argue about the most smallest things......you still want to and have to be near him and you choose him over everything and anything....then yeah...seems to me like you are 100% sure...it's a good start. This marriage could possibly work! yaaye... hehhehe
2 comments:
True true..never change a man...accept him for what he is..if you can do that..then he's the one...if you're still wondering the 'what if's'.....don't even think about marriage, and maybe you need to reevaluate your relationship... Good luck girls....
ahaaa ahaa..you are smart ;) hehehhe..love it when my readers are smart.... woohooo.. :)
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